But even still, I told her flat out that she slept with him too soon. MORE: Ask a Guy – Is Sex on the First Date A Relationship-Killer?
It was a pretty open and shut case, probably one of the easiest relationship questions brought to me. The guy my friend was dating never really invested in her.
He usually asked her out for Saturday night no later than Wednesday and when he still hadn’t asked her out by Thursday she started to panic.I’ve dated guys like that, the ones who were ready to marry me on the first date, and I wasn’t flattered…I was freaked out.The truth is, deciding when to sleep with a guy is important and will have an impact on your relationship. No girl has ever lost interest in a guy because he slept with her on the first date while guys lose interest in girls all the time for giving it up too soon.I stood silently as the whole thing started to unravel. They didn’t really know each other, all they knew were the superficial details that anyone else can be privy to.
I make it a policy not to give my friends relationship advice unless they explicitly ask for it (and a lot of the time they won’t because they know I’ll hit them with the truth and they would rather stay in denial-ville). What do you know about him that you couldn’t find out from his online dating profile or Facebook page? Well he would show me pictures of his nieces and nephews and talk about them! Anyone on Facebook could see the pictures and I’m sure he talks about them to his friends and co-workers. When it comes to sleeping with a guy, the quantity of dates is an arbitrary measure of the state of your relationship.A close friend of mine recently met an amazing guy on an online dating site.