A lady doesn’t initiate relationships, ask guys out or move in for the first kiss.
But, what if the guy you have your eye on is shy to the bone and just can’t pick up on any of your signals?
Still, when I got the email from him asking if I’d like to have dinner, I was intrigued enough to go.
When it was just the two of us, his words were still limited, but flowed more smoothly.
He seems nice enough, I told her, but clearly is not into me because he never really flirted. All my life, the men I’d been attracted to were extroverts who told jokes and held court like royalty — and they flirted and seduced quite skillfully.
“Oh no,” she insisted, “I was watching, and I can tell he likes you! Introversion in a man was not something I understood, let alone appreciated.
Most men’s publications are full of advice on how guys can overcome shyness. “Introversion is only a flaw if it’s perceived to be. There’s also a mysterious quality about introverts that makes them very attractive and alluring.” You can say that again.
Find the cause, and you will have a good shot at getting to the next level.Plus, it’s always fun to see if there’s a sexy caveman lurking beneath that quiet exterior.” And because shy men are not players, they are much more likely to treat a woman well — with respect and even adoration. Bear in mind that there’s a difference between someone being shy and being passive.